Educational guide

Not Sure If It’s Bullying?

Choose the situation that is closest. This guide explains general concepts; it does not diagnose or decide a specific case.

Learn how hurtful behavior may fit into a bigger pattern and what support can look like.

Repeated, intentional social exclusion can be part of bullying in some circumstances.

Repetition and power imbalance are common elements in general bullying definitions.

Go to the cyberbullying guide for digital-safety steps and resources.

Prioritize safety and involve a trusted adult or appropriate professional.

Learn safe bystander and friend-support options without escalating the situation.

Important: New Jersey’s legal HIB definition is specific and school processes apply that definition. This guide does not make legal conclusions.